When you give a party at your own home, it is best to follow a few do’s and don’ts. That way you don ‘t end up resenting your party guest, and they don’t go off grumbling about your bad party hosting.
Do put away any item or items you don’t want broken. For instance, great-grandma’s irreplaceable Ming vase. Accidents happen, and the worst thing you can do as a host is to spend your time hoping no one breaks your prized possessions or heirloom pieces.
Don’t leave rooms unlocked or doors open to rooms or areas you don’t want guests to be in or see . Humans are well, a bit nosey and curious. So you must help those who are curious and take away temptation to peek by locking doors.
Do put away pets. Some people don’t like pets or may even have allergies. As a good host, you need to consider your guests. If you’re unable to lock your pet in a room away from the party, then I suggest lodging them at a kennel for the day of the party.
Don’t forget to remove your prescription drugs from any of the bathrooms or the kitchen. This is especially important if your party will include children or teenagers.
Do make sure you have enough food and drink. If you’re hosting a hors d’oeuvre party, you’ll need 10-15 appetizers per person. For a dinner party make sure you have plenty of servings to go around and add about 3-4 extra servings. You never know who might bring a guest or if someone has a big appetite. You want enough drinks to keep people happy. You can ask a local wine and spirit store to make suggestions on types and quantities. Don’t forget some soft drinks and water.
Don’t forget you’re the host not the waitperson. For informal parties, it is acceptable to place the food buffet style, and fix the party-goers one drink then tell them to help themselves. If you’re doing a more formal party, you may need to hire bar-staff and wait-staff.
This post is sponsored by Newark, Delaware, caterers.
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